About Me

Most people like to live in harmony, yet live in and deal with conflict on a regular basis. Even though some situations seem tough to resolve, there are always options. Using techniques as deep listening and asking effective questions, I can assist you gain a better understanding and eventually solve the issues at hand.

As an attorney in the Netherlands, I have litigated for individuals and companies for almost a decade. Whether they won or lost, their needs weren't always met after the legal procedure had ended. Not to forget court procedures can be long, inefficient and costly.  I realized mediation and conflict coaching can be the answer to what the law doesn't provide.

Since then I have been making a difference as a certified mediator in the Philadelphia PA market for close to a decade.  Coming face to face with the most aggressive of scenarios, bringing my clients to a place of resolution through mediation or facilitation/coaching.  Once parties are willing to talk and ready to listen with my assistance, they're ready to jump into the conflict resolution process and resolve their issues. 

As a Conflict Resolution Instructor I  have delivered over 50 trainings and taught over at least 500 people. I provide research based strategies for various groups of professionals and youth programs. I am passionate about delivering an interactive training and having you leave the training excited, empowered and positive about your gained skills and knowledge. 

My expertise is applied to four areas of conflict resolution: 

1)  Two Party Mediation - As a neutral third party I lead the process of facilitation helping both parties to come up with their own solutions. 

2)  Multi-Party Facilitation -  As a neutral party I lead and steer the meeting down a path of resolve where all perspectives are heard.

3)  Conflict Coaching - Clients will be empowered to engage in, manage and/or resolve the issue with my assistance.

4)  Conflict Management Training - I train (company) staff in conflict management strategies, how to manage and resolve existing conflicts and how to prevent them going forward.

I developed the COMMUNICATION WISE MEDIATION AND COACHING PROGRAM. This is an intensive, yet effective program. During this program I guide you through solving internal conflicts during the individual coaching sessions. During joint sessions I guide both parties through solving mutual issues. The outcome is living your life free from this substantial conflict that's been holding you hostage. You'll be on your way living your life free from conflict. Imagine what that life will look like! Let me help you achieve a better understanding of each others points of view or come to a full agreement with all issues resolved. 

Mediation has over 80% success rate!